READ 5 HINT:
1. You can't fix people. You are in a
relationship with them because you have accepted them for who they are for
their dreams, their frustrations, and their annoying mannerisms. When you are
in a relationship, you will learn that you can never fix them and that you have
to let them be who they are. If you try so hard to mold them into the person
you want to be, then maybe they shouldn’t be the person you’re dating.
3. Misunderstandings are inevitable: There’s
no such thing as a perfect relationship. It’s crap that people aim for
perfection. You will argue no matter what. It’s not healthy if you don’t fight
because arguments make you realize how much you want your relationship to work.
You cannot always agree on everything. That’s bullshit. Fights will only be
unhealthy if it’s already irrational and if it happens on a daily basis.
4. You should never expect. It’s not
always about you. You have to realize that disappointments are often caused by
too much expectation. Being in a relationship will teach you how to become more
realistic, understanding, and patient. Your relationship isn’t a movie. He’s
not Patrick Dempsey or Josh Duhamel. And you’re not just a girl standing in
front of a boy waiting for him to love you. Your relationship is real; there
are no ‘cuts’ and ‘credits’, you don’t have ‘scripts’, and what you do doesn’t
last for two hours—it lasts for how long you want it to.
5. You should stop being paranoid and trust
them: Stop overthinking, he’s not hiding anything from you. You
have to start believing in him because he also gets hurt whenever you think
otherwise. Trust is the hardest thing to give, earn, and do whenever you’re in
a relationship. But little by little you will get to learn how to give it.
Trusting someone is equivalent to loving them.
hmmmmm
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